• Reference Points. A big one for doing better with different kinds of girls is getting the right reference points. You might have a real hankering for girls with big breasts and tattoos, but no matter how many of these girls you talk to, you cannot get dates or pick one up for a one-night stand. You’ve hit a wall where you aren’t able to communicate enough sexual intent or lead decisively enough because you don’t really believe these girls want you or you can get them. Yet a roll in the hay with a girl like this you pay for (especially if it is a good experience – connection, seduction, sex) can break this barrier for you and make sex with a girl like this real… Which frees you to actually be able to picture yourself with her when you meet such girls.I’ve seen various guys pay for one or two hookers of types they wanted but could not get, and then go on to start picking up, sleeping with, and dating their preferred type of girl after this. Again, used in moderation, this tactic can get you over the hump and let you start succeeding with real girls after. Yet, as above, there are large risks if used immoderately (we’ll discuss below).

  • Abundance/Momentum. I’ve had successful seducer friends who used hookers to supplement their pickup diets. If they were on a hot streak and wanting/needing sex all the time, and hadn’t picked up a girl in a couple days, they’d buy a hooker to keep the streak going. Often it’d work, and they’d pick up a new (non-paid) girl within a few more days after and the streak would continue. Another way to use hookers is to build momentum for a streak or break a dry spell.

  • Relationship Power with No Relationship Threat. In more traditional cultures with regular / not heavily outlawed or policed prostitution, it’s much more common for married men to use prostitutes. The man won’t tell the wife, but it’s understood or assumed that this is just what men do… Men have sex with various women. A prostitute provides a ‘safe’ outlet for this, in that there’s less risk of the man falling in love with her (and leaving his wife/children), less risk of pregnancy (and diverting resources from wife/children), and less risk of the girl causing havoc in the man’s life out of jealousy, resentment, or possessiveness/competitiveness. The benefit to the man’s relationship is the man keeps his testosterone levels up (by not being completely monogamous), stays in control, and retains that “I get laid, and not just from you, honey” attractiveness, without the same degree of risk to him, his wife, or the relationship that comes with a proper mistress or a string of unpaid hookups.

  • Geographic Freedom. You obviously don’t need to be into hookers to move overseas or become a globe trotter. Not being a whore monger hasn’t slowed me down any. However, the guys I know who are into hookers are among the most well-traveled I know. They’ll tell you stories about the whorehouse in a dark alley in Indonesia they ended up in, or teach you barbershop poles are used to advertise brothels in South Korea, or they’ll tell you about pay-for-play culture in the Philippines or Africa or South America. Once a guy is into hookers, he’ll start to want as much variety as he can get, and that can lead him on trips of discovery to exotic locales around the world.

So, yes. Using hookers is not without its distinct benefits to both seduction and relationships.

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Nevertheless, it’s not all sun-kissed morning dew and red April tulips. There are some real dark sides to prostitution as well… so before you run off and hire yourself a lady of the night, let’s talk about what those are.

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